Marriage on my mind..

though i could not serve you with the February installment but i assure you that i would compensate for the loss in this dish. the topic itself says it all. How interesting it is going to be? Marriage- for me it's always been an event to suit up and dance to music. Nothing more than that. i graduated in 2008 and most of my college friends have already tied their respective knots with their loved ones. till very recently i was not bothered about the same happening to me. I mean, to be the one, whom everybody looks upto, what he is wearing, what is he eating, how is he behaving? etc etc...

for last two three months, i have been continuously one way or the other told by my parents, relatives to think beyond dressing up and eating in a marriage. slowly and steadily i realized that they were talking about me getting married. is it the right time to get married, am i settle enough to have another responsibility on my shoulders. these questions keep hunting me and most of the times i find YES answer.

on the other side of the coin, as far as stability is concerned, i am not decided about my job locations, it might get shifted to some other place later or sooner. As far as job is concerned, i have still not completed my probation period. though i fully determined to complete it this time but life keeps on surprising us like it had been in the past. as far as family is concerned, younger brothers are struggling in their careers. so amidst all these uncertainties, is it really the right time?

having said all this, i will not deny the fact that whenever i listen and think about brighter side of the picture, i do get excited about the whole scenario. i will turn 26 in may and already working as a gazetted officer in a state government department . what else one needs? the answer to this question is: A girl. A girl who fits in your family properly and opens up to adjustments, a decent combination of beauty and brains and most importantly, should be working.

so gals , an eligible bachelor looking out for a perfect match!!!

Reagards

Parul Goyal