Having said that, I would like to give you all a feel of what exactly is there in the box for you this time. As in the last blog of mine I tried to explain the people that it is not necessary to have a story or something happening to blog. Even one can always blog about the feelings what are there in his mind. The same way I did. But it is always important to take care of what people want to read or hear about. Means there is no fun in putting my bums to pain without aiming for something in return. In this blog I will narrate a true incidence of a boy with whom you will be able to relate yourself as a human being at any stage of the story. Once you feel connected then my purpose is solved. I will think that what my followers wanted to hear I made them hear the same. And if you all feel good about it, I would feel too as a consequence of the Newton’s THIRD LAW OF MOTION. I am writing about him because I feel inspired from him.
Without much a do, let us start with the story or I would say a real incidence of a boy who is as normal as we are. His name is MITESH. I met him while I was in the college. He is a fun loving and true person, not fake at all. Whatever comes in his mind he vomits it back (yukkkkkkk). But that’s the quality I like about him. He Is a true friend of mine. I could discuss anything with him (anything means anything, mind it!!!). He used to console me when I used to feel low at the same time he used to share my happy moments to make them as a never ending memories in my life. During the entire college life we came to know about each other very well. Now also I always consult him during any decision or whenever I am in dilemma. Whatever suggestions or solutions he gives, I totally follow them without giving a second thought. That’s kind of trust and belief we share.
That was an introduction about him to prepare a ground for the people who do not know him (all of you except me) sothat as an audience//listener//reader they must know who the person, about whom they are reading, is?
There are lots of incidences which I can share with you which will inspire you a lot. But I will touch upon the latest one as it will take hundreds of blogs to pen down all of them and you all will need to grill yourself for long nights and days to go through them. Moreover those all belong to the college life which all of us, been done with, so I would not give you a chance to live it again (how mean!!!). The incident is about the relations of an employee with his boss and colleagues.
It goes like this. Recently he had been shifted to a new project in his company where he finds himself in a mess. In the previous projects, his record have been really good as he is a sincere and hard working guy; at the same time, follows company rules strictly. So it was obvious for his new boss to expect a lot from him (as all bosses do even if the person is not capable, how selfish!!!). He not only treats his juniors badly but discourages them also. My friend had come to know about his nature quite soon. His boss’s only funda was to make people stay beyond normal working hours even if there is no work to do effectively. Mitesh got irritated with this behaviour and discussed it with me. I told him to remain calm and take his time to get acquainted with the whole situation. But he took a rebellious step. He started doing arguing with his boss every second day. He was totally frustrated and even took a decision to quit his job. But then Mitesh got into roots of the whole system and came to know about the cause of the problem. It was his colleagues who made his boss so dominating. Actually from the starting of the project only, they all gave him so much space that he could enter, even, in their personnel life. They all were continuing their job as they were now used to it. Moreover it was their first project hence they have made a portfolio of a boss like this only. But Mitesh was new to such kind of environment. One day he busted out without thinking about the consequences. And guess what, it changed his life. He just had an argument with the boss in which Mitesh make his realise that he is not one of them who follows others’ footsteps but he creates his own. Moreover it was evident that Mitesh has achieved all his targets within the time limits, whatever has been assigned to him. From that day onwards till now, the boss has not told him to stay back after office hours. And moreover his boss gives him a lot of work (in a positive manner) because he trust Mitesh to an extent that he knows it Mitesh will complete the work in stipulated time. Now, all izzz well. Everything is going fine. Mitesh is happy with the job profile; he sees more opportunities of learning in the new project. Even the colleagues have also started thinking on the same path (hmmm!!!! Poor people).
So it gives me a learning that “always speak up” when you are right, don’t hesitate to express your views even if your senior is forcing you to nod in terms of agreement. Mitesh has always been an inspiring figure for me. I always look upto him and believe me; it has helped me a lot. With this I would like to end this incidence hoping you all will stand against the terrorism which bosses, in every organisation, have grounded to treat their employee the way they want.
On a table, that looks like a abandoned war ground where everything is trying to find a space for its worth, be it a pencil, a bag or a pile of some rotten books (looks like as if somebody have inherited them from their grandfather) and pleading the owner to read them; be it a hand towel, a laptop; then a comb, a empty glass lying in unconsciousness position, then few dust particles and a spectacle box. Only a night bulb is on which is lighting up the room in such a manner that creates the awesome ambience in the room. Pin drop silence. This was the situation on 24th July, 2010 (an off Saturday night) at around 11.30 pm in the night when my roommates had gone into their dreams to find out the way to crack IES, as they are aiming for IES-2011 and this time hopefully they are serious about it (May GOD bless them with the hard work and the dedication a person needs to crack IES).
I was in my blanket feeling cold due to mercy of weather, got up from bed to turn off A.C. Even now was not able to sleep and then I realised the importance of writing a blog. Not only it gives you a platform to express your feelings, to connect with people but it acts as a medium to get rid off your loneliness and boredom also. Now again it was the time when I was all geared up to show my writing skills to the people and when my body started opposing the whole bulls**t idea because it has to suffer a lot in many ways (discussed already). But I was determined to keep the pace which I have been maintaining for last three months. Almost one blog per month, it was already 24th of this month hence it was the high time to keep up with my schedule.
Its 24th July, 2010 @ 11.45pm: Well, I am again here to make all you crazy with another creation of mine(What do u think, that's repeat, actually not).
You all must have heard of split personality. That’s not the case with me (don’t worry), I am not here to scare you all but shall tell you the truth of my life through this one. In childhood, I was named as Mitesh ( as they wanted to make the trio of Mitesh, Hitesh and Nitesh; other two are my brothers) but then one of my family members was obsessed with the name Parul so they gave a name to me which became my first identity but nevertheless I could not forget my foremost name also. I always analyse things by discussing them with me only. I try all the permutations and combinations of the consequences that might happen after a decision of mine. That habit I conquered when I was in college and was matured enough to take my own decisions. My tongue has always been ahead of my mind but still I try many times to control it. I believe in,” There is no one else who can judge you except you only”.
In the last blog, I yelled out loud my frustration in terms of blog, which most of you have not read (I know it all!!!) or maybe you have read but not commented (do comment this time, being a bit optimistic). I wrote about my feelings which started coming to mind when I was trying to get adjusted in the new company, new boss and colleagues.
After spending more than 5 months in the organisation, now I have got well acquainted with the system. Moreover I have found new friends among my colleagues in the company as now our frequency have started matching. Now days, everything is going great. I am in love with my life. Friends are there, good roommates are there, Anti (maid) is there to take care of our food and most importantly family is there who call me everyday to know whether I am fine. I might lie to them on phone when I am not feeling well but still they come to know from my texture of voice. To add to my happiness, rainy season is around which has been quite roaring till now.
I have already taken bath sufficiently in the rainy showers which have resulted in cold many times. Yet I always wait for the sky to get dark and roads to get jammed (for the time being, not thinking about others!!!) and make me wet completely in the waters consisting of hundreds of bacteria and hazardous gaseous molecules without getting into the result part. This phase of live, I want it to be everlasting. There are some synonyms or similar meaning sentences which have been used very frequently in the blog, are as follows:
(i)Mitesh :: Parul (The writer)
(ii)New project :: New company
(iii)Parul met Mitesh in college :: Parul conquered his self in the college
(iv)Mitesh argued with his boss :: Parul did not listen to his boss
(v)Colleagues are following Mitesh :: Colleagues have also started raising their voices
DECLARATION
This is an effort made deliberately to connect with the public opinion. Hope you all will appreciate my effort.
PARUL GOYAL
